I need to let it go.

Cancer Dec 1 2011

You have an adversary. But this person is actually a friend or a relative. How did you come to view this person as an opponent instead of a loving member of your inner circle? Perhaps there was a long-ago, all-but-forgotten conflict between the two of you that you never quite worked out. If you can still accurately recall the details, which may not even be possible at this point, it's time to sit down with this person face-to-face and work it out. But if you aren't sure  how your competition began, then it's time to simply let it go. You will benefit immensely if you do.